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The guy was a complete nigger, turned him in, his behavior was severe and he's going to jail for 20+ years. Can't go into super big details but still. My mom on the other hand, is seething and telling me i should have just live and let live, and stopped when i was ahead. Since I also get restitution for damages, my mom is absolutely hating me right now, and told me i should just settle down, count my losses, and let this nigger continue to rob and embezzle money that doesn't belong to others, because it's not my place to tell him off. As far as she is concerned, I have to care more for the feelings of some criminal nigger, over the damage he has done to multiple lives. I want to forgive this woman and try to understand her, but sometimes she makes no sense, why in the heck would you champion criminal behavior at the expense of the innocent?

The guy was a complete nigger, turned him in, his behavior was severe and he's going to jail for 20+ years. Can't go into super big details but still. My mom on the other hand, is seething and telling me i should have just live and let live, and stopped when i was ahead. Since I also get restitution for damages, my mom is absolutely hating me right now, and told me i should just settle down, count my losses, and let this nigger continue to rob and embezzle money that doesn't belong to others, because it's not my place to tell him off. As far as she is concerned, I have to care more for the feelings of some criminal nigger, over the damage he has done to multiple lives. I want to forgive this woman and try to understand her, but sometimes she makes no sense, why in the heck would you champion criminal behavior at the expense of the innocent?

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[–] 4 pts

Sounds like your relationship with your mom is toxic AF. I’m not going to tell you what to do, but I have a policy of cutting toxic people out of my life..including family if need be.

[–] 0 pt

You don’t have to cut them out, but compartmentalize appropriately.

[–] 1 pt

Well that depends on the level of toxicity..

[–] 0 pt

True…I suppose my dad is 100% out…but if I really think about it, that was self inflected as a result of being compartmentalized. I gave no attention to the drama, and set guidelines for any participation. Those rules were enough for him to self isolate.