keeping yourself in order as a female without the help of a man is actually quite difficult, because then you're only using your own judgment for it. I like having someone to talk to about the plans i make, because while i think i have done well sometimes theres holes in my ideas i never consider. It's hard to refine your ideas with other women because theyre so eager to validate you that no female wants to accuse you of having done anything wrong, and if something goes wrong they will always make excuses for you.