There is a case to be made for charity. Going back to this time period, it wasn't a young widow's fault if her husband suddenly died. But back then people had larger families and the church as well.
Not the governments business. Governments can't deal with individual situations.
But in your case recall that the young widow poisoned her young husband and the local community knows it but not the central government.
Discretion is a favorable variable that charity can impose.
Charity is a private operation. Welfare is the governments attempt at forcing everyone to be charitable
Charity: Widows and orphans get money, food, goods, care, etc. Young men get opportunities to work their tails off.
Welfare: We give people money and take it away from people who start to get somewhere.
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