I have always hated the "food with the boss" thing. I also don't like to eat out so I always refuse and just tell them I have diet restrictions. When they ask me to pick a place I just tell them I don't really eat out because it usually makes me sick no matter where I go. I know they don't give a fuck about me. They are just trying to do "boss things". I just want to be left alone and get my work done.