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Our cat passed yesterday after what was a very long and painful night for all of us. Today is the first day without her and we miss her very much. We are comforted knowing that she had a good life and is now at peace.

She is pictured here sleeping on my wife's legs as she would most mornings. At night she would sleep on mine as I watched podcasts or read.

We had a wonderful 16 years together. I am very grateful for that.

Edit: I will try to answer all of your comments personally but know that if I don't I do appreciate them and things are very raw for me right now.

PS.This has been very helpful for me, thank you all.

Our cat passed yesterday after what was a very long and painful night for all of us. Today is the first day without her and we miss her very much. We are comforted knowing that she had a good life and is now at peace. She is pictured here sleeping on my wife's legs as she would most mornings. At night she would sleep on mine as I watched podcasts or read. We had a wonderful 16 years together. I am very grateful for that. Edit: I will try to answer all of your comments personally but know that if I don't I do appreciate them and things are very raw for me right now. PS.This has been very helpful for me, thank you all.

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[–] [deleted] 5 pts 3y

My heart goes out to you! We lost ours recently too.

Just remember, the sorrow you're feeling now is a reflection of your complete capability of love, and that is a beautiful thing!

[–] 1 pt 3y

Please accept my condolences. Yes, and I am richer for it. Though I feel very poor atm.

[–] 1 pt 3y

I’m not a cat guy but I hope You and Your family enjoyed your time with her.

[–] 1 pt 3y

Thank you. Rest assured we did.

[–] 2 pts 3y

Its worse if you dont out-live them. Then you dont know what will happen to them. But still they take a part of you with them when they go, dont they?

[–] 0 pt 3y (edited 3y)

Yes. She took the worst and made it better. Thank you for helping me see that.

[–] 2 pts 3y

16 years is a good long run, but it doesn't make it easier. I'm sorry for your loss.

[–] 1 pt 3y

True. I have so many good memories though and for that I am truly blessed. Thank you.

[–] [deleted] 2 pts 3y

Unfortunately all furry friends do not last long enough

[–] 2 pts 3y

Sad to hear that hurts just to hear this

[–] 1 pt 3y

Rest assured it is bitter sweet. Thanks.

[–] 1 pt 3y (edited 3y)

Lost mine last year at 17 years old. She got nasty tumors on her belly a few years prior to that (breast cancer as I later realized, really regretted not spaying her early). It was awful and painful, but she endured for a solid year and a half after one of the tumors burst open. Then one day cancer must've gotten to her lungs because she was incapable of purring anymore which kept her alive, and she almost instantly turned into a walking corpse. Her last moments were very hard for her, but I was there with her all the way. I felt like shit the entire year after that. We buried her under the tree near my place so we could always say hi to her as we pass by. I got a new cat recently though, another girl. Dad really wanted one, he just seemed too sad otherwise. I was against it, but having no other choice I accepted the new kitty, we even named her the same as the old one. I learned a lot with my good old girl, so I'm not going to repeat same mistakes again. I wish you good luck too. Some recommend replacing dead pets with new ones ASAP, but it's easier said than done. For me it sort of feels disrespectful. But then there's a new life, a new opportunity for a young little cat to experience joy and happiness.

[–] 0 pt 3y

My condolences on your lost. That sounds like a complete nightmare for all involved though I'm sure you had many good times before that tragic end. I love that you have her buried in your garden and can benefit from that direct connection. We would have preferred that but chose cremation as we are likely to downsize at some point.

My wife and I both agree that we will get another and not waste any time about it. We see each animal that we bond with as a unique experience and life as a very short space of time. Peoples opinions will differ of course and they need to do what is right for them.

Thanks for sharing your experience and encouragement.

[–] 1 pt 3y

Sorry to hear that friend. A good life is all we can ask in this life and looks like your cat had just that.

[–] 1 pt 3y

Thank you. Yes and she made mine so much better too.

[–] 1 pt 3y

Laying in bed with a purring cat is one of life's great pleasures. Lowers blood pressure and makes the world seem peaceful. She will watch over you.

[–] 1 pt 3y (edited 3y)

Thank you. Yes, she took the edge off of many a difficult time and will be with me always.

[+] [deleted] 1 pt 3y
[–] [deleted] 1 pt 3y

i still get upset when i think of my aryan kitty, Gunther. pure white, one blue eye and one green. i will wake from a deep sleep and start mourning for him. it's been 25 years.

[–] 1 pt 3y (edited 3y)

I knew a cat of similar description. Yours sounds like it was a fine animal indeed. Yeah we never forget those we love or cease to regret the loss. Thanks for sharing.

[–] [deleted] 0 pt 3y

you're welcome. your cat lived a blessed life with you guys.

[–] 1 pt 3y

She looks like my Tigger who lived a good 15 years! She can play with my Tigger in heaven while they wait for us to get there!

She is in a good place and I believe she will still rub up against you again via another animal :)

[–] 1 pt 3y

Thank you. That's a wonderful thought.

This is the first day without her yet I see her everywhere I look.

[–] 1 pt 3y

I still see my old lady occasionally out the corner of my eye... so does the rest of my family! We are certain she is still there, coming to check on us every now and then. <3 I'm certain Sheba will do the same. The bond we share with them is eternal.

[–] 1 pt 3y

She must have meant a great deal to you. Thank you for sharing that.

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