Having many kids is great, but broken/recomposed ones are prime targets for jews. I'd say you should persevere with your wife, you met her young and that's a tremendous (tremendous!) evolutionary advantage for you to keep her on the right path, because you were there at a formative time in her life. I met mine when she was 17 and I was 22, and I simply took the reins of her life from then on, and I can't possibly list you the number of times she confessed feeling grateful and happy for it. Traditional works best for a stable home life, with the man as the leader and the woman as the follower. My wife is pretty smart, she understands life will always be better for her and the children with me around rather than strike out on her own in a world she can't and doesn't want to compete in. She also loves children, and that's a must have in a wife because that's the sole activity she should be devoting her time and passion towards. Keeping her home also shields her from the jewish poison pervading society and filling women's heads with delusions, so stay-at-home work is also be a must, non-negotiable approach.