The puritans were the masters of understanding this and all human relations. If you're really serious about the truth of 'getting along' in all capacities this is an example of their mindset. People pay for bad advice, but this is free, and the truth. https://www.apuritansmind.com/the-christian-walk/the-christian-family/the-mutual-duties-of-husbands-and-wives-by-rev-richard-baxter/