LOL - all rants, no action. There may be a participation award in it for you. But since you don't have the stuff, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and begin to make a real life for yourself. You may not believe this, but we all started at the bottom and worked our way up. I have have two daughters likely about your age who have done just that and are quite successful. So are their respective male counterparts. What you're looking for is the world to stop spinning and let you in, in some high paying gig so you can afford this or that or to get married, have kids, whatever. The world didn't do that for us, nor will it do it for you. From experience let me inform you ... there will never be enough of a bank balance to get married ... there will never be enough for you to have kids ... the great high paying job doesn't come to you, you have to work to get it ... we all did ... we all made the choices and became what we became. Taking chances is what life is all about in the end. As for my generation, we didn't wake up one morning with someone saying ... hey, I gotta have that guy, pay him anything. Nope, it's on you, bud ... wake up and smell the coffee or sit there and stew in your own juices, it's your choice. Look to the streets, there are many failed boomers, too ... some made it, some didn't ... and unless you look inward, you can't possibly succeed.