I help my kids when they need help, but I dont put myself in a bind and neglect my responsibities to do it. That said, there are some total screw offs who never get or keep a job and will bleed their parents dry and cry for more and more. A grown ass man or women are responsible for themselves and need a wake up call sometimes to get on the right path. I worked hard to prove I could take care of myself, something lost on some child adults now a days.