Ouch, that is rough. Never mind me being sorry but that guy is a dick.
I hope you can get what you want. It is shitty to have someone lie to you about where you want to be in life and just expect you to do what they want "later" because "reasons".
Its more shitty for them to fuck you over with taking out CC's and loans in your name though. That is down right hostile and shitty.
On the other side. You are away from them. That counts for something at least.
Yep! It's been decades. I've learned a lot from him and a lot in the meantime. I may never own a house, but I'm not miserable and I'm in a relationship that makes me happy. It took a lot of insanity, but hey, at least I'll get a few years more, if I'm lucky, of happiness.
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