Other people have social media and cameras. You can make yourself mostly invisible on the internet, but you can't do that in real life as well. All you need to do is say the wrong thing in front of the right people and get caught on someone else's video and uploaded to social media. Bam, they got you. The only way to avoid that is to completely isolate yourself, but that just means you self-censored and voluntarily removed yourself from society such that you are no longer human. (((They))) win either way.