I think I probably know a bit more than you. Why do you think you know more than me about women?
Ok sure let's have a pissing contest. You've never been lured in by a sweet girl who turned out to be a psychopathic woman? Never spent days apologizing for nothing you can fathom, or cruising down the street in the middle of the night trying to convince your sweetheart to get in the car while she screams and cries for no other reason than to wake up your neighbors? Ever been asked to role play as a stranger so you could take her out on a date but so her son won't go back home and tell Dad that Mom was meeting a strange man. Oh and you don't find out about "Dad" until later. Or she flirts with your friends because she thinks that'll make you "appreciate her more". Fuckin psychopathic women man.
I have gone out with a couple psychos. Ive run afoul of a few users and manipulators.
There was one that turned out to be fucking around behind my back, including a friend.
There was one who blamed any foul mood on me for not encouraging them enough, because I didn’t get that their problems were serious. It was my fault if I didn’t help them pay their bills. It was my fault they got fired from their job for acting like a lunatic.
There was one that was an alcoholic. Would get into fights with the neighbors. Make scenes. Got arrested a couple times.
But its ridiculous to assume that all women are psychos.
Some people are psychos. There are male and female psychos. They don’t always behave in the same way but they are the same in that they have little empathy for other people and the cross other people’s boundaries. I don’t see any reason to think there aren’t just as many male psychos.
Crossing psychos is part of life. Learning to recognize them is key. Females are no more inherently psycho than males. Females have different motivations than males because of evolution. Your job is to find one you can have a mutually beneficial partnership with, who is prepared to make compromises for the sake of that partnership. That compromise goes both ways.
I get what you're saying, but I have never known a psychopathic man or one that will behave the way a woman will. Have you? There is a clear difference and when it comes down to it, I will ALWAYS trust my friends before a girl.
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