A happy one. You cant make anyone else truly happy if your not happy your self .
You live in a bumper sticker world. Feel good platitudes that don't work in real life. Warm fuzzies are for children.
Not at all selfish. And it can work but that clearly not your prerogative. Really integrity! your integrity shit if your miserable. It's the blame game your stuck in. "Poor me my life would be so much better if this didn't happen. Or if the economy was better or waa waa... so what fix it dick and move around. It's your own fault no one else's. And I guarantee you'll quit
You're obviously young and unchallenged. Living in the real world isn't about constantly seeking happiness, it's about pursuing contentment. If you quit every time you are discomforted you'll never grow. I don't have to blame outside events for the problems that occur, I've dealt with them the best I knew how and accept what I've attained. If I found myself in a situation that I want to be better, I don't quit or blame, I find a way to change it.
There's nothing I can say to change your views, but I know that life will. Good luck.
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