Well, I did choose to have kids, but when some random, uncontrollable events occurred as a result that was not "something you love, like, or want to do" I did them anyway and didn't "quit and walk away from it." It's called responsibility, integrity, and grit. What kind of quality life is lived only seeking personal pleasure?
Your philosophy is best defined as hedonism and is selfish, idealistic, and immature.
A happy one. You cant make anyone else truly happy if your not happy your self .
You live in a bumper sticker world. Feel good platitudes that don't work in real life. Warm fuzzies are for children.
Not at all selfish. And it can work but that clearly not your prerogative. Really integrity! your integrity shit if your miserable. It's the blame game your stuck in. "Poor me my life would be so much better if this didn't happen. Or if the economy was better or waa waa... so what fix it dick and move around. It's your own fault no one else's. And I guarantee you'll quit
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