Not even close, go out enough and it becomes common to get groped (but you need to be attractive). People get handsy when they get alcohol. A simple, "Sorry, not gay" usually stops it. Some are VERY persistent, however, and follow you around. Never had to tell the bouncers because they all got the hint eventually and left me alone. It's the drunk fat chicks that are the absolute WORST. Feeling entitled to any man they see. And actually grabbing my crotch. Oh, and, at the gym, I've had my butt touched more than once, too. By gay men. Gay men are very bold and sexually assault-y. One of them did it with my GF right next to me. You shouldn't wonder why gay men are spreading monkeypox so readily - they never stop trying to have sex with every man they see.