Similar story happened at work. A blue-haired woman was going on and on about having her butt touched while at the club and that men never experience that. She was furious, raging, and huffing about it. And the knitting circle of women just agreeing with her. I told her that drunk women and gay men CONSTANTLY groped me when I was at the club and it never upsets me at all. Even a tiny bit. She blew the fuck up on me and said I was trying to invalidate her feelings. I hit her right back with the woke bullshit, "So my feelings and life experiences where I've been sexually assaulted in the same ways but more often and worse than you, are not valid? That's not very nice of you. This is not how you should treat victims of sexual assault. My experiences are just as valid as anyone else as are my feelings." Livid, livid, livid. She said I was still trying to undermine her experiences. So I staired her dead in the eyes, "No matter what you think, feel, or say, my experiences and how I felt about those at the time will NEVER ever change. Ever. There's nothing you or anyone else can say or do that will change my experiences and feelings in the past. They are immutable." She stopped engaging. And our other female coworkers intervened and said we should move on. Of course we should move on: a man bested them at their woke Olympics game. She was "literally shaking." Sorry, tootsie, but you lose the game. You're not special because your butt was touched once at a club.