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[–] • 4 pts

Compassion is an admirable trait but becomes a detriment to both when the affected use it as a crutch instead of a resource.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

You simply must use the gift of discernment.

If someone wants to break out of misery and doesn't know why, you can help them.

[–] • 2 pts

I've struggled with that discernment, but I'm getting better.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

As have I, but life is about learning and sounds like you have

[–] • 0 pt

if u ever need any advice i am here to help my friend.

[–] • 0 pt

you cannot help someone that refuses to help themselfs

[–] • 1 pt

That's pretty much what I meant.

[–] • 1 pt

yup

how are you doin?

[–] • 1 pt

I know this almost to well

[–] • 0 pt

#me too

i just went thru a situation where miserable type person insisted i get involved with thdrama and threatened me with not being friend anymore if i did not get involved and defend a known pedo so i basically have cut hem out of my life and no longer want to associate with em.

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

We all go through shit in our lives, and we all hit low points. If you don't try to help your friends when they're at those points than you're the one that failed in that friendship. Try, and if they refuse help try again. If you hit a point where you know it's hopeless and it's affecting your mental health then you should consider dropping them, but you've got to try.

You don't abandon friends, but if that friend won't listen to reason than they've abandoned you, and you can cut them out with a clear conscience.

[–] • 1 pt

i am speaking about individuals you have tried to help for many years but only seem to thrive off drama and shit. Id never say turn your back on ANYONE unless their behaviors have become detrimental to your own health and well being buddy

thanks for the comment and i should have made post more in depth so others comprehend is last thing to do

[–] • 2 pts

So they get even more negative and depressed and you can feel superior?

[–] • 1 pt

no in hopes they will realize they are causin the people who care about them major problems and use that to inspire em to better they self is my hopes. are you sad n depressed?

[–] • 2 pts

are you sad n depressed?

nah, not really

[–] • 1 pt

if u ever need to talk im here just send me pm

[–] • 1 pt

You don't have to cut them out. Just let em know how you feel and deal w/ em in moderation. If you just vanish on people they won't know what to think.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

doesn't comment or contribute yet downvoated this

looks like an alt for voting

[–] • 3 pts

I downvoted it because it sounds like a fucking awful idea. "Oh, that person is depressed? Cut them loose, who cares what happens to them." It's heartless.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Well, you aren't a sanegoat alt as suspected.

Thank you for expressing yourself and defending your dissent

[–] • 2 pts

I understand your suspicion. But for now I'm just quiet because I'm deciding if this place is right for me. In fact I wasn't aware up/downvotes weren't anonymous.

[–] • 0 pt

fuck em. they know who they are and why they downvoted this...

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

You're right.

It spreads like a disease and they'll try to bring you into their narrative.

Try to encourage and help them, if they can't change let them lie in the grave they're dug.

[–] • 0 pt

misery loves company

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

It's a disease passed from jews.