Honestly it's a concession to even call it sex. It's not sex. It's a disgusting form of masturbation for people who can't get sex. Calling it sex is like calling gay marriage marriage calling a boy or girl or calling someone a trans person when there is no way to transfer a sex in a person today medically. Just using the term gay sex is a concession. Call it gay masturbation or gay anal perversion or gay actually hell don't even call it gay that's a concession call it homosexual masturbation or homosexual debauchery or homosexual anal penetration or I don't know what the hell but it's not sex.