i dont think its too much to expect that someone (man or woman) have enough self awareness to stay in their lane.
The problem are these dating apps that distort how things work in the real world. In real life she maybe approached by 3 to 4 guys a year.
On dating apps she probably has 100 matches if she's in a densely populated area with 99% of the guys just wanting some fuck and nothing more.
What's wrong with 3 to 4 a year if the quality is good. I dated less than that many before I met my husband. It just wasn't worth it. I was asked out, but just had better things to do in life than being out every weekend screwing.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with being approached by men in the real world, it's typically genuine.
My point is that these dating apps distort reality.
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