In assuming that it is inherently female to cope with sadness by becoming disgusting and then the ludicrous juxtaposition of that against the assumed superiority of a male coping strategy in improvement. Really it's in no way gendered and some women reconfigure their habits and get fit while some men retreat to gamer chairs and weight gain. To not understand this immediately upon seeing the meme does not mean you are a virtuous defender rectifying the language; it means you are lost in hatred of women. Probably unresolved homosexual tension too.