Of course that’s why it’s extra lol

Brother, you are over focusing on the problem definition.

This is true only in the most abstract problem solving sense. If you zoom in a little bit closer on the problem it gets fuzzier and not quite exactly this clear cut.

There are many layers to this, one of which is what you described, another is that our men are not acting like leaders of their families / communities (just look at the male posts on this thread ... pathetitc), the other is we are allowing our media and culture to be produced by non whites that want us simultaneously dead and poisoned by value systems for their own species as well as things like us not having our own organizations that help facilitate relationships, marriage, counselling and the entire ecosystem around relationships.

For our people, relationships are not a simple 1 + 1 = 2 mathematical equation. It is a fairly sophisticated ecosystem of groups and systems designed by us for us that facilitate the transition of our children into adulthood, then into marriage and family and finally into leadership of our civilizations.

Please start acting like a leader and recognize when you, as a white man, are only offering ultra focused problem definition instead of leadership.