>Men’s moral compass is to get laid and maybe —MAYBE —to ensure the survival of that offspring if it isn’t too expensive for them. Its really not *that* sophisticated. We are a tiny bit more sophisticated than that. Not by much, but it is there. Eventually we all learn that chasing money is meaningless and the only joy in life (after getting laid) is watching your children grow up. I don't know what it's like for women, but looking at a bunch of kids and being able to say 'those are mine' is a hell of a thing for a dad. We kill for our kids and our women. It feels like the big challenge is relationship training for men and women. We all figure out a subset of the relationship dance in our own way, but, it really feels like this should be a set of weekend courses that our people could complete and then use to improve their lives. For example, being critical of each other is important, but I don't think we are trained to really appreciate all the good bits as well, that really needs to be part of the coursework. I have been thinking about seeing if we can re-claim our churches for various services including relationship training classes. It could be a terrific avenue for starting to re-claim our cultures back from the deviants.