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If I were to have kids, which I won't but this is just for the sake of discussion, I wouldn't be as strict as some here.

Why? Because I was raised with plenty of screens around me and I turned out to be a Nazi. Can't get much better than that.

Now when the kid is still a baby then... Duh. Screentime isn't much of an option because babies give no fucks. When they hit 4 or 5 though, I've got a backlog of games and stuff they could play if they care to. Spyro, Crash Bandicoot, a couple older Star Wars games, just generally fun stuff that was around before things were too far gone.

Of course, and this really should go without saying, it isn't as if I'd let the kid play it 24/7. Nonono... Swimming, hunting, fishing, little RC drones because those things are cool as fuck, and whatever else smaller me gets into. Hopefully he/she likes shooty-pew things. Start off with a BB gun to learn how to shoot with both eyes, bump up to a .22, then a .223/5.56, then big chonk boolets once they're old enough to not get put on their ass by the recoil or scope themselves.

I've seen it with my own eyes plenty of times and I know exactly where parents go wrong: It's when they're handing their phone off to the kid to shut them up to play angry birds or whatever the fuck. I didn't have my own phone until 7th grade, and it was a dinky little flip phone (Though I'll admit I do kinda miss it.). If you're going to give 'em games and movies to watch, make sure you know what it is first. It's that easy.

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Have kids. You might be the father of the next Furher!

I get your argument to an extent, but screens when we were growing up aren't the screens of today. I think it was far less possible to get addicted to 32 and 64 bit video games the way kids now get hook. I too have SNES and N64 games and consoles that I'm excited to share with my son some rainy day in the future. However, I want him to be far more excited about playing outside in said rain if I will let him.

And you are right about the phone hand off to quiet them down. Seen it far too often myself. I get it, fussy kids can really grind your nerves. But ultimately being a parent is hard work in the early years and these people need to step up to the challenge they took upon themselves.

I'm a pretty carefree kinda guy but the thought of failing my kids like some parents are doing these days scares the shit out of me