Haven't really seen it be like that in bumble but by putting conservative you filter out a lot of that shit. It's incredibly superficial and soul-sucking though. Even if you go out if these girls don't like one little thing they just ghost you. They have 500 other dudes trying to message them. I've definitely lost more faith in humanity on dating apps.

I met my wife on a dating app, it took over 2k matches and I only ever went on 2 dates with different women. It's no different than filtering the other piles of shit content you see on the web. It was easy for me as every swipe was a match so step 1 is be attractive. I was so naive I didn't know it was a hookup app until much later from some friends, it was hilarious in retrospect because there was a huge disconnect between myself trying to find a good partner and thirsty girls just wanting some action. A light bulb went on, oh those girls wanted to fuck me? Most women did not care to reveal anything about thier inner being or identity and were as basic as it gets. Worth the effort as now I am a father and a husband to a white family with zero tattoos or drug usage of any kind in the home and the good lord is in our house, you don't have to only use things in their intended purpose I suppose you can create your own meaning throughout the process but takes precision and will or pure naiveness