I'm in my 30's and come from a wealthy family. 6ft and relatively handsome and witty. Never had a problem with getting pussy. In my 20's sex was like a sport. I would work out, read about fashion and try to constantly hone my charm. Getting laid was like a sport. Lost count long ago, but I would have had sex with over 200 women. That doesn't even count the failed attempts where I would get a bj or fingers. Sounds like I am trying to brag, and maybe I am a little, but there is a flip side to what I did. Nothing to do with STDs and it is dark. I'm now engaged to a girl 10 years younger than me. She is perfect and changed me into a better man. However, your brain doesn't just forget all the past experiences you had with sex. My girl now is an awesome lay, but sex fucks with your mind like a drug. There will be times when I am super horny, and get flashbacks of previous girls. Will have to jack off as I can't concentrate on anything else. Will get home and my horny younger fiance wants to fuck and I just don't have it in me. So pathetic that I would rather jack off to a girl in a porno that kind of looks like a girl I once fucked, rather than have the real thing from a woman who loves me. When I was young I used to think PSA's about virginity and staying pure were gay. To make losers who couldn't get laid feel better. Now I'm older with perspective there is a higher truth to them. If you have sex after marriage, that pussy will be the best thing you have ever experienced. Even if you only sleep with a few girls and marry the one that's the best, you will worship that pussy like it's a gift from God. Fucking for sport is shallow and meaningless. Just like a drug, you will always be chasing that previous hit and when the perfect pussy present itself, you will be numb.
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It true bro. Friday night, and I spent half of my earnt buzz typing it.
But sex is necessary to procreate.
Procreation is not special. Every organism since the dawn of time has procreated. We are evolved. Just saying. Love is real. If you are worthy love will find you.
So should we not procreate?
While I haven't slept with that many women (you whore), I've had my fair share and you're right. You're always craving more. Always thinking of this body, that blowjob, those tits, etc., it can make it hard to just focus and appreciate what you do have.
I used to think fucking sluts was awesome. Now after all these years my lustfulness is one of my greatest weaknesses. Seriously I hate how horny I am. I think I've broken my brain with all the pointless sex and porn I used to consume. I hate it.
Not claiming I have the solution. But love, instead of lust is the way. The girl I'm with now actually loves me. You can buy pleasure, can't buy love.
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