Why are you mad though? Why do you get pleasure watching her fail? Few people find love so why is she a bad person for choosing a different path? Even poor people marry for money, just less money. The divorce rate is through the roof. Average women marry average men with average jobs. The women lose their average looks and the men aren't happy, and when the men lose their average jobs the women aren't happy. Because they were never really in love. That is the vast majority of relationships. Love is something that fuels teenage dating. Marriage is a formula based on exchange. A lot of wealthy men do marry women who don't have any education because they will never need it. Their role is not to get a job. Why are you demanding that she have more to offer to be a valuable partner? Why can't she just be a pretty, kind, caring, affectionate, available partner? That is really all these men want. Why does it upset you that she isn't meeting your higher standards?