Always remember this - If they ever say "It's fine" or "I'm fine", never tell them that they don't look like it's fine. What you're doing is calling them a liar, and no one likes being called a liar. Instead when they say it's fine - Give them a kiss on the cheek, and tell them how lucky you are to finally be with someone who never lies. That in past relationships the girl would be lying when they said it's fine. But it's so nice to be in a relationship with her because she is always truthful and honest, and never lies to you.