I agree that there’s less good women to choose from out there, but such women still exist.
But because they’re harder to find (much less to identify without a substantial amount of investment to see who they really are over an amount of time), I think most men - including the singles on this sub - get frustrated and end up either settling OR giving up entirely on the idea of wife/family.
While I agree with this woman, I’ll also say that the dumb whores she’s trying to get through to are of no consequence to me personally (outside of the fact that they vote like cunts and I have to pay for their welfare babies).
What I’m saying is that if I (or the woman in this video) needs to convince any woman why she sucks or why she’s a cunt, she was never an option for me anyway of my own choosing. In other words, have standards and stick to them. Anyone who doesn’t meet them doesn’t matter anyway because they’re below your standards to begin with. So who cares about them or what they think anyhow? Their own attitudes and lifestyles will be a self-fulfilling prophecy of justice that will be visited upon them with no help from me or you.
The types that “bitch about men while living the life of a harlot” (like those women she’s referring to here) need me and you more than we need them. The best thing a good man can (and should) do is to ignore those types and find the diamonds in the rough. Then create families with them and raise those kids right.
Make an example out of both your marriage and family that will infuriate the “cunts of the world”..they’ll either learn and change - and maybe be lucky enough to earn and keep a good man - or they’ll die alone. Neither of which should negatively affect any of us.
The only scenario in which one of these cunts directly negatively affects any of our lives is when we allow it by dating/marrying them.
Good men should be way more picky, way more intentional in dating, learn to efficiently separate the wheat from the chaff, and never settle for anything less than a truly good woman.
Most, if not all, of the complaints I see from men when it comes to the dating/marriage pool are a direct result of their own failure to do any one of those 4 things. They let an ant colony into their bed knowingly, then complain about getting bit. Instead of, you know, not letting ants into the bed to begin with.
I say this as a man who married the wrong woman and got divorced. Yeah she fucked me over and she feels like I fucked her over. But hindsight is 20/20 and looking back on it, I chose poorly. It’s that simple. The red flags were there but I chose to ignore them. I wasn’t picky enough. I ignored my better judgement. That’s on me, not anyone else. Yes, the number of shit women is higher than the number of good ones. But bitching about that and lamenting it has done nothing for me, even if it’s true.
Instead, I focused on what I could control and ignored the things I can’t control (such as the generally shitty state of most American females). Since my divorce I have adhered - with great prejudice - to the four principles I outlined above. And it has paid off. I truly found a unicorn of a woman and we’re engaged. Had I not stuck to those 4 principles, I would have likely made the same mistake all over again that I made last time. But because I never compromised in what I want and know I deserve in a woman, the reward is great for me and will be for my offspring because they’ll have a solid mother. Pity I had to learn the hard way, but at least I learned. One thing I will say is that if you lose enough, it will damn sure incentivize you to get it right the next time around and not be so cavalier about your choices.
But the optimal scenario is to learn from others’ mistakes or otherwise just “do it right” from the beginning.
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