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Don't listen to trash panda. I found my wife on tinder. Married for 3 years now with 2 kids. She's Christian, hates jews and blacks, and basically agrees with the sentiment of this site.
I do feel like I caught a unicorn but it is possible. You just gotta get out of the mindset of just trying to smash. And be real on your profiles.
You are still in an high risk situation. She has all the power and you none.
What happens when you piss her off by saying no once? While some young guy was flirting with her and giving her fuzzy feels? And her gf who hates you is also dogging you? And she sees her neighbor get house and kids from a recent divorce living it up partying and whoring?
Don't feel secure because you ain't. Tens of millions of men. Do you comprehend that number? Though they had married a unicorn and got brutally destroyed by divorce. Many of those men were better husband's earners and fathers than you.
You're lucky, bro. You're probably of above-average looks and have your shit together; or at least can present yourself as someone who does. Unless you register as a 7/10, on the scale of objective attractiveness: you're doomed on dating sites. At least in-person, you have more of a shot because they can't just swipe you away. But not everyone has that luxury.
No. Delete it all. Dating apps are degenerate and you're unlikely to find a good mate there.
I found my wife online but not through dating apps. Discussion forums where you have to be somewhat red-pilled to be there in the first place.
It was effortless. I added her, we didn't even talk for a year. She made some interesting post about a story she wrote. We went back and forth about it a little, talked about our creative interests, then a few days/weeks later she made a post about guns, to which I replied. Then I private messaged her, explained my philosophy on the subject and asked her to expand on hers. Poked her brain a little bit.
I guess, I just made efforts to put myself out there and interact with interesting people without much expectation, as much as possible, and then we just naturally clicked based on that. Pretty much instantly after we started talking a little bit, it became pretty clear we were practically the same person.
So I was adding and talking to lots of people and it wasn't necessarily on a romantic basis. It just turned into that. On accident.
We talked for maybe a year, then the Covid stuff hit, plane tickets were dirt cheap, and I was like "well. You wanna do this? We don't really know how serious this is. They will probably start locking things down soon. Might be our only chance" And now we're married with a baby on the way.
I regret adopting this annoying fucking cat that won't stop waking me up 15-45 minutes before my alarm in the morning. Needier than my toddler, I'm not even exaggerating
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