To love somebody means you want the best for them and for them to become the best person they can be. One can love their substance-addicted family member and not trust them. One can love somebody and still be incredibly disappointed in them. It even means feeling remorse for those who hate you for ending up hateful. We can love those who get abortions, but it doesn't mean we have to trust them, partake in their lives, or condone said behavior. It's murder through-and-through, except under extreme circumstance.