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Secular voluntary celibacy

Person X is a male. X wants to find a wife Y. X would like Y to be a virgin because celibate females are more likely to have successful marriages and because celibacy shows strong virtues.

Is X a hypocrite if he himself has had pre-marital sex?

Can X only reasonably expect to find a virgin wife if he himself is also a virgin?

Should X expect Y to be okay with X not being a virgin?

Person X is a male. X wants to find a wife Y. X would like Y to be a virgin because celibate females are more likely to have successful marriages and because celibacy shows strong virtues. Is X a hypocrite if he himself has had pre-marital sex? Can X only reasonably expect to find a virgin wife if he himself is also a virgin? Should X expect Y to be okay with X not being a virgin?

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  1. X is a hypocrite.

  2. No. But it'll be less likely as X gets older.

  3. If X doesn't want his wicked past to be a constant point of contention within the relationship, he'll find a Y that's less judgemental than himself.

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I imagine if X shows humility and is upfront about how he feels that he made a mistake, I don't really see it being a big problem.

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In this day and age yes. Women have the nanny state to turn to for food and shelter and protection and are free to be as easy as beating up a toddler. Free abortions and housing means Sally sue don't need no man. Marriage only works for women because it assures security for them and offspring. Thinking that even a virgin wife will be faithful in this day and age is like thinking it's okay to walk through the hood.

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A good key may open many locks, but a good lock only has one key. This may seem unfair bit it is the truth