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This is going to be tough. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her but reopening those feelings of loss and sadness from how she died is going to be not where I want to be at all. I cried all my tears and felt all the pain and I hope people don't drag me back to her final day.

This is going to be tough. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her but reopening those feelings of loss and sadness from how she died is going to be not where I want to be at all. I cried all my tears and felt all the pain and I hope people don't drag me back to her final day.

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[–] • 2 pts

Papatooth, I'm very sorry for ypur loss. I lost my mom 12 years ago last month. I still think of her every day. Of all the people I have lost in my life, Mom's death was the hardest on me.

[–] • 4 pts

Thanks Lurker. Mom's was fast but she suffered so it made it really tough and don't get me started on Florida hospice. Those fuckers should be jailed.

[–] • 2 pts

I’m sorry to hear this, papa. Stay strong in your resolve and know that it will be over soon, and really, just a blip on the map of life (the mass, not losing your mom). My mom’s been gone 6 years now and I still think about her everyday. We didn’t have the best relationship the last 25 years of her life, but I love her nonetheless and miss her. I think of only the good times and not the hardships we endured. Good luck.

[–] • 3 pts

Thanks FU yeah we had a ruff go most of my life but she became so sweet once she got dementia. I actually really felt love for her as my Mom then. Too bad it took her forgetting that she thought I was an awful human to get there.

[–] • 2 pts

I hope you find the strength. I’m sorry for your loss.

[–] • 2 pts

I'm very sorry you lost your mom.

[–] • 1 pt

Deepest condolences, PT. May the mass bring you a modicum of closure. Stay strong, Brother.

[–] • 1 pt

memento mori... its been a year and a half now nearly.

My father was my first big loss. Death is inevitable. Grieve, then move on.

[–] • 2 pts

I agree. Circumstances just had her funeral mass almost 4 months after her death. I met with some of the relatives tonight and it wasn't too bad. So I'm encouraged by this. Mostly light conversation about her passing and saying hello to people I haven't seen in 20 years and will probably never see again. It's weird stuff.

[–] • 1 pt

I think you’ll find you’ll be alright after this final closure. Godspeed friend.

[–] • 0 pt

Thanks GHS. All is finished and it went well. Good speeches by my brother and cousin, nice catholic mass for Mom. It was weird seeing people I haven't seen in 20-30 years and never will again. So surreal.

[–] • 1 pt

I'm sorry for your loss.

It's hard to go through it all again, but you will push through this. Everything will be fine.