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My church is making you do something like pre marital counseling before getting married, or using them as an officiant. It seems like a complete waste to me though, since why bother? Not only that it takes 6 months to complete, and all it really does is focus on topical things i dont care about. Is it worth it?

My church is making you do something like pre marital counseling before getting married, or using them as an officiant. It seems like a complete waste to me though, since why bother? Not only that it takes 6 months to complete, and all it really does is focus on topical things i dont care about. Is it worth it?

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[–] [deleted] 2 pts

It might give your fiance a chance to realize what she's getting into.

As for the specific content, most is just secular psychology wrapped in church-ese lingo.

Good luck.

But she already knows who i am down to a very deep level, so what else is there to know about me at this point? She and I are both of the theory that legalistic marriage in today's current form is a disgusting money grab, and as far as she's concerned, she would prefer it if i could just claim were married and that would be the end of it, no fancy ceremony, none of that, just her, me and God