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My church is making you do something like pre marital counseling before getting married, or using them as an officiant. It seems like a complete waste to me though, since why bother? Not only that it takes 6 months to complete, and all it really does is focus on topical things i dont care about. Is it worth it?

My church is making you do something like pre marital counseling before getting married, or using them as an officiant. It seems like a complete waste to me though, since why bother? Not only that it takes 6 months to complete, and all it really does is focus on topical things i dont care about. Is it worth it?

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Settle down there, pardner. I didn’t say I condoned it. The fact is that I don’t know what OP’s situation is so I accounted for the possibility. I would hope they aren’t living together before marriage and I myself have never lived with a woman outside of marriage.

But if they are living together, I still recommend good counseling.

Pronouns might have been muddled a little there. I mean if he is (which seems likely), then he should quit using the name and the sub with the name.