i egt mixed advice on this, some of the people within that church said to not do it, and most people agree its a waste, but the pastor wont marry us without it, so now im just super confused
Like I said in my initial reply to your post, not all counseling is equal. I’ve had good counseling and bad counseling. But that doesn’t mean counseling in general is useless or a waste of time.
You ever had bad sex before? I have. But it doesn’t mean that “sex is stupid.”
Read my initial response to your post, then get back to me.
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