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The way i see it, i would rather die than ask for any kind of handout or charity. even today, i had the option to ask for help when it comes to some house stuff, or do it myself. and i came to the conclusion i could do it myself. i've also come to the conclusion that bitching aobut my problems to others is a futile endeavor. nobody gives a crap, and they have their own problems anyways, so they clearly dont care about your own. so then, what is it about pride that i'm missing? or like all other concepts, did this one also get kiked to hell and beyond?

The way i see it, i would rather die than ask for any kind of handout or charity. even today, i had the option to ask for help when it comes to some house stuff, or do it myself. and i came to the conclusion i could do it myself. i've also come to the conclusion that bitching aobut my problems to others is a futile endeavor. nobody gives a crap, and they have their own problems anyways, so they clearly dont care about your own. so then, what is it about pride that i'm missing? or like all other concepts, did this one also get kiked to hell and beyond?

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I feel like if I have to manipulate people into liking me, Im doing it wrong. I dont much care if people like me, and some pretend to, i know they're probably lying, either to me or themselves. My mom used to always tell me people can only see me as a person in terms of what they can get from me, and I believe her. Didn't have many friends in middle school, high school, but part of me thinks my mom was preparing me for the real world, or rage dumping her own feelings onto me. I have to say, her feelings are not really that far off from reality.

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Everyone is manipulating everyone all the time unfortunately. Whether they mean to, know they’re doing it, doing it for good or evil etc. That’s one reason god / religion is so important, it tries to give us a bearing with that information. Tell us what to do / what is right despite ie knowing everything we do is manipulating.