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Sure, my newborn throws up on me daily, goes through far more diapers than I thought possible, makes constant little dinosaur noises, wants to eat every hour it seems, and doesn’t let me sleep. Still the best thing ever.

Life is precious. Have kids.

(I’m terrified though. How do you raise a child in this satanic shitshow our culture has become? How will I keep her safe? At least my happily blue-pill libertarian husband seems to be shaking himself out of his complacency; father instincts are an amazing thing to behold.)

Sure, my newborn throws up on me daily, goes through far more diapers than I thought possible, makes constant little dinosaur noises, wants to eat every hour it seems, and doesn’t let me sleep. Still the best thing ever. Life is precious. Have kids. (I’m terrified though. How do you raise a child in this satanic shitshow our culture has become? How will I keep her safe? At least my happily blue-pill libertarian husband seems to be shaking himself out of his complacency; father instincts are an amazing thing to behold.)

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[–] • 6 pts

Homeschool and network with other redpilled parents. In a way it's sad that all the institutions that should be supporting you now are occupied by your enemies, but on the bright side it's going to be a wonderful adventure building alternatives.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Homeschool is definitely an option. My husband fights it - yet I’m the one who personally had spergy homeschool friends, and I’m still willing to risk it. Plenty of good options out there for it now that do include contact with other kids. It’s either that or get elected to the school board or private school management board... which I WILL do if we don’t have another option.

[–] • 1 pt

Homeschool is definitely an option. My husband fights it

Private and public school is way more expensive and/or will give worse results. You also need an extra car and if you have more than one kid to drive all over town every morning dropping kids off at different institutions.

Just show him the costs. All your wage as a woman will just go to pay other women/strangers to take care of your kids.

A one income family can be done easily if you share rooms and the kids have bunk beds etc..

[–] • 1 pt

A one income family can be done easily if you share rooms and the kids have bunk beds etc..

It really is about adjusting expectations and not trying to compare your family's toys and vacations and worldy things to those with two incomes shipping their kids off to public school. My parents sacrificed financially to homeschool me and I will never be able to thank them enough for it.

[–] • 1 pt

Plus, with the way things are, schools aren't going to be social anyhow.

Scouts is a great social option outside of school. Depending how cucked the local organisation is of course.

[–] • 3 pts

Have 4 kiddos of my own. Still bed sharing with our 2 year old. I hope you guys bed share. Such a wonderful way to bond. Also that Cry it Out BS was invented by a jew. Do not let your kid cry to they come to the realization you wont help them, then when they are tired of crying they pass out.

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

I am absolutely not interested in doing some kind of insane Cry It Out sleep training with our little girl. I think it’s so selfish too, all these sleep programs promising to make your baby sleep 10-12 hours a night. They need to eat, and they need comfort.

[–] • 2 pts

Also that Cry it Out BS was invented by a jew. Do not let your kid cry to they come to the realization you wont help them, then when they are tired of crying they pass out.

God that shit is so evil. I don't know how parents can stand to lock their infants up in another room and make them figure out how to sleep alone and afraid like that. Those babies need to hear their parents' breathing and feel their heartbeat.

[–] • 3 pts

Those babies need to hear their parents' breathing and feel their heartbeat.

We bed shared with our kids. My wife also breastfed. Baby wakes in the middle of the night, mom gives boob. Everyone is back to sleep. Not one sleepless night.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

It took us a few nights to figure it out with our first, and the constant hounding from everyone about how evil you must be if you'd bedshare with your infant didn't help at first. They failed to mention that almost all cases of mothers crushing their babies in their sleep involve obese mothers, drugs, alcohol, painkillers from C-section etc, or lack of breastfeeding. We were fortunate to meet a doula/midwife who helped us out immensely and taught us how to sidestep all the retarded OB and labor/deliver/postnatal bullshit lowest common denominator "advice".

Since then it's been super easy with all our kids; and no sleeplessness except if they're teething really badly.

[–] • 3 pts

You're so lucky, congratulations! :) I was looking into private school costs even though I don't have kids yet just to kind of get an idea of what I'm going to do in terms of protecting them from Clown World™️ and it's like $5k/yr for a single child. Homeschooling and having a good network of parents/kids to socialize your child the right way might be the way to go if you can handle it.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

I’m terrified though. How do you raise a child in this satanic shitshow our culture has become? How will I keep her safe?

I have small children that my wife stays home to raise and without God, I'd be terrified too. Every day I have to cast my cares on Him and carry on about my duties trying to serve him and provide for my family while trusting Him to guide my actions as completely as my children trust me. We live under His authority; it's our job to obey Him and it's His job to pick up the pieces.

Turn off all entertainment media and don't expose your child to electronic entertainment. It's all poisonous mind control. Instil respect for the patriarchial authority paradigm in your child from the earliest age possible. The top-down family unit with authority resting in the father not only keeps children safe but it's a reflection of the patriarchial structure of God's relationship to us. Marx wanted to annihilate the traditional family structure for a reason.

Homeschool your child. It's far easier than the Gramscian state re-educators want you to believe. There are still excellent textbooks available for homeschooling that teach didactically and that have no shadow of the common-core degeneracy. I can send you lists if you want. Keep it simple, teach Logic, mathematics, grammar, and writing. Read history and add supplemental topics as seems natural.

Making the decision to stay home and raise your child yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can give both them and your husband. Returning to that paradigm is our only hope.

[–] • 1 pt

Please send me the links.

Thanks in advance

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Saxon Math: Trigonometry and geometry are taught throughout. The final books in the series are calculus and physics. Get the 1st or 2nd edition only. The word problems in later editions are getting kiked up with common core bullshit. https://www.hmhco.com/shop/k12/Saxon-Math-1-Homeschool/9781565770188

Easy Grammar: Effective at teaching the structure of the English language. Try to find a supplemental handbook on sentence diagramming for when students are a bit more advanced. https://www.easygrammar.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html

Teach vocabulary and spelling as distinct classes early on. All you need for that is a dictionary, the older the better.

For the rest of the language arts, just read (preferably history) and write. There are tons of good handbooks for composition like The Elements of Style. https://www.amazon.com/Elements-Style-William-Strunk-Jr/dp/194564401X

Introductory and Intermediate Logic: Teach logic as a distinct course as early as your kids can retain the concept. Teaching your kids how to think and form arguments didactically is crucial. https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/introductory-logic-student-4th-edition_james-b-nance_douglas-j-wilson/462885/#edition=5284387&idiq=43731070

Exploring Creation with Science: Either find the earliest editions of the series or look up the newer series re-written by the author, Jay Wile, starting with Science in the Beginning. Apologia owns the Exploring Creation with Science series and started common-coring it up in the later editions. Wile re-wrote the series with the new title. These books are paired with supplemental lab kits and cover from middle school up through high school. The series lays an excellent foundation for technical writing. https://www.christianbook.com/page/homeschool/apologia?kw=exploring%20creation%20science&mt=b&dv=c&event=PPCSRC&p=1018818 https://bereanbuilders.com/ecomm/product/science-in-the-beginning/

All these course series end up at a level well above the 1st or 2nd year general courses offered at most universities. When I was growing up, the public schools around me tried to stop letting homeschooled students come and take their PSAT/SAT/ACT at the school because homeschooled kids who followed curriculum similar to this were always the top few percentiles and were getting a large portion of the national merit scholarships. Add in music lessons and religious studies, and other topics of interest like geography, astronomy, philosophy, electronics, mechanics, etc as they come up. It doesn't need to get super complicated. Teach real life skills like gardening, animal husbandry, auto-repair, woodworking, welding and whatnot as much as you are able. I hope that helps someone.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

You’re absolutely right. And like my mom keeps telling me, we’re born into the time we belong to. If I can teach my daughter only one thing, I hope it’s discernment between good and evil.

[–] • 2 pts

The wife stays at home. The first thing to do is turn off the TV. Then things get easier. Return to tradition and start family dinners with your parents or his every week or every other week. Invite your grandparents over to chat if they're still around and so they can see their heritage grow.

[–] • 1 pt

Think about it this way: at least you're not raising your child during the third century. If women could handle it back then, you can certainly handle it now.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

rule # 1- you are not your child's friend. you are the parent. the friend stuff comes much later. prepare to be "the bad guy."

[–] • 1 pt

Sleep when baby sleeps.

Don't fuck this one up.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Doesn't it feel natural?

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

It’s amazing. My only regret is that it took me this long to get to this point. I’ve been working on starting a family since I was 25... made a big mistake with a serious long term relationship, my current hubby took a long time to propose, and we had a year of setbacks with miscarriages prior to getting pregnant with this little one.

But it feels so good to have told my last company to fuck off (my boss was begging me not to quit haha) and have this instead.

[–] • 0 pt

we had a year of setbacks with miscarriages prior to getting pregnant with this little one.

You can improve your chances for the next one with NMN/NAD+ and resveratrol. It's the newest in age research and will even turn menopausal women fertile again. Husband should take it too.

Don't drink/smoke etc..

[–] • 1 pt

All I can say is you’ll want to do your best to teach her how to think. The current system is focused on creating worker drones, which is why most kids are taught what to think.

It’s absolutely critical that you give her the tools necessary to feel confident about asking questions and not blindfully believing authority.

Perhaps even more important: you’ll want to build a strong relationship of trust. If she feels she can talk to you or dad about anything, you’ll have a much healthier and happier relationship.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Yes! This is what we want for her.

I’ve also been amassing a small but thorough personal hard copy library for over a decade now. With any luck, we will have the tools on hand to help her get the non-approved (but honest) perspective on things.

[–] • 0 pt

I’ve also been amassing a small but thorough personal hard copy library

This is not only a good book to have, but also one with a lot of projects it could be fun to do with kids (like making soap, paper and such):

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18114087-the-knowledge

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

happily blue-pill libertarian husband

I can already picture what this superhero tshirt wearing, neckbearded manchild, soy boy faggot looks like.

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