TBH That's a pretty personal question.
TBH That's a pretty personal question.
If this were NSFW, I might answer. Probably not, because it's fucked up my life very hard. Never really recovered. I've never told anyone about it either.
At least, if we're talking about the worst moral thing that's happened to us.
Talking about things outside of the worst moral things to happen to you, it would probably be my Crohn's disease kicking in at age 17 and in less than a month nearly killing me. I was rendered permanent disabled from it. From "Never knew I even had it" to "blood coming from places it shouldn't be and a 70/30 chance of dying on the operating table" in about 20 days.
Or maybe it was hearing my mom say straight to my face in the 6th grade that she wished she'd died during an operation... that was fixed 2 years later. Because she didn't care about anything other than how she felt.
If this were NSFW, I might answer. Probably not, because it's fucked up my life very hard. Never really recovered. I've never told anyone about it either.
At least, if we're talking about the worst moral thing that's happened to us.
Talking about things outside of the worst moral things to happen to you, it would probably be my Crohn's disease kicking in at age 17 and in less than a month nearly killing me. I was rendered permanent disabled from it. From "Never knew I even had it" to "blood coming from places it shouldn't be and a 70/30 chance of dying on the operating table" in about 20 days.
Or maybe it was hearing my mom say straight to my face in the 6th grade that she wished she'd died during an operation... that was fixed 2 years later. Because she didn't care about anything other than how she felt.
hell is relative
hell is relative
The worst is yet to come, I'm sure.
So far though, it was when my dad left mom and left us behind. He couldn't take her lies and under the radar drinking once he found out. He stayed in our lives as much as possible, and I don't know how the court proceedings went there, but she got primary custody, and he got to work double overtime overseas. I'm sure that helped pay the child support that was supposed to go to us and paying the house payment. Well, it didn't go to those things at all.
Mom got drunken emotional support from dogs. At one point we had 16 of them, a couple of which I dispatched due to their problematic nature of using the house as the toilet. She made sure they ate before we did. At the end of that saga we had a wrecked house and a wrecked family. House got sold eventually. We moved a few times. Eventually I made my own way.
I can go on, but to put it simply, the worst thing that ever happened to me was my mom becoming an alcoholic who lost complete control of her life and by proxy fucked her entire family up.
Pretty messed up, yeah?
The worst is yet to come, I'm sure.
So far though, it was when my dad left mom and left us behind. He couldn't take her lies and under the radar drinking once he found out. He stayed in our lives as much as possible, and I don't know how the court proceedings went there, but she got primary custody, and he got to work double overtime overseas. I'm sure that helped pay the child support that was supposed to go to us and paying the house payment. Well, it didn't go to those things at all.
Mom got drunken emotional support from dogs. At one point we had 16 of them, a couple of which I dispatched due to their problematic nature of using the house as the toilet. She made sure they ate before we did. At the end of that saga we had a wrecked house and a wrecked family. House got sold eventually. We moved a few times. Eventually I made my own way.
I can go on, but to put it simply, the worst thing that ever happened to me was my mom becoming an alcoholic who lost complete control of her life and by proxy fucked her entire family up.
Pretty messed up, yeah?
I don't know. I would say I've been blessed and smart enough to make good decisions. I've been in some situations where things could have easily gone worse, but I've never broken a bone and I've never suffered any crazy trauma. I've had a few spills on motorcycles.. two dirt bikes, three sport bikes (one collision with a vehicle) I walked away from all of those incidents with minor scrapes and bruises no hospitalization required).
No problems with the law, house never burned down or anything..
Mom and dad alive and together so far. Two retard (not clinical, just dumb) siblings though. They're RNs now by the way.
Mom was using a push mower once and cut her toenail off when she unexpectedly backed into (tripped over) some tomato cages and got her foot caught under the mower. That was pretty scary at the time because we thought it was the whole toe or part of the foot. Dad was at work, I had to drive her to the hospital (no license due to being 14yo at the time).
One of my siblings put a key in an electrical outlet as a toddler.. somehow survived that with no obvious physical injury..
Other sibling was hit in the forehead with a wooden baseball bat and knocked out by my father (accident, she was standing too close and his follow through caught her by surprise)
I think any answer I could come up with would be mostly trivial/laughable. Something embarrassing or humiliating that I'd rather not remember.
I wouldn't say I'm living a super successful life, but when it matters, luck tends be on my side and things work out reasonably well. knocks on wood
I don't know. I would say I've been blessed and smart enough to make good decisions. I've been in some situations where things could have easily gone worse, but I've never broken a bone and I've never suffered any crazy trauma. I've had a few spills on motorcycles.. two dirt bikes, three sport bikes (one collision with a vehicle) I walked away from all of those incidents with minor scrapes and bruises no hospitalization required).
No problems with the law, house never burned down or anything..
Mom and dad alive and together so far. Two retard (not clinical, just dumb) siblings though. They're RNs now by the way.
Mom was using a push mower once and cut her toenail off when she unexpectedly backed into (tripped over) some tomato cages and got her foot caught under the mower. That was pretty scary at the time because we thought it was the whole toe or part of the foot. Dad was at work, I had to drive her to the hospital (no license due to being 14yo at the time).
One of my siblings put a key in an electrical outlet as a toddler.. somehow survived that with no obvious physical injury..
Other sibling was hit in the forehead with a wooden baseball bat and knocked out by my father (accident, she was standing too close and his follow through caught her by surprise)
I think any answer I could come up with would be mostly trivial/laughable. Something embarrassing or humiliating that I'd rather not remember.
I wouldn't say I'm living a super successful life, but when it matters, luck tends be on my side and things work out reasonably well.
*knocks on wood*
one time I misspelled 'to', it was terrible
😁
But then I sprayed hydrofluoric acid in my eye at a welding shop with no eyewash. It was a close one, the white parts of my eye were so swollen that when I looked right or left, it would fold over and cover my cornea. (Found faucet out back w/ help of coworker). But you said worst, this wasn't that, not sure I want to go there.
one time I misspelled 'to', it was terrible
😁
But then I sprayed hydrofluoric acid in my eye at a welding shop with no eyewash. It was a close one, the white parts of my eye were so swollen that when I looked right or left, it would fold over and cover my cornea. (Found faucet out back w/ help of coworker). But you said worst, this wasn't that, not sure I want to go there.
I've almost died a few times, and I have broken many bones. Worse than any of that was kidney stones. Look up what oxalates are and what amounts are in the foods you normally eat. Cut out the ones you eat a lot of and avoid a rotten pain.
I've almost died a few times, and I have broken many bones. Worse than any of that was kidney stones. Look up what oxalates are and what amounts are in the foods you normally eat. Cut out the ones you eat a lot of and avoid a rotten pain.
Women
Women
Well, at the time, some fucked up things. Now I look at those times as the best things to happen to me. It's when you're down for the count that life comes into perspective. Now I look back at all those struggles and realize they made me become a man. Tough times create tough men. I am proud of who I am and I wouldn't be where I'm at without those times. All bad things also have invaluable lessons that when realized will make you stronger than anything else could. Keep your head up and keep going. The only thing you can control is what is happening right now. Past is gone and the only thing you can change is perspective.
Well, at the time, some fucked up things. Now I look at those times as the best things to happen to me. It's when you're down for the count that life comes into perspective. Now I look back at all those struggles and realize they made me become a man. Tough times create tough men. I am proud of who I am and I wouldn't be where I'm at without those times. All bad things also have invaluable lessons that when realized will make you stronger than anything else could. Keep your head up and keep going. The only thing you can control is what is happening right now. Past is gone and the only thing you can change is perspective.
Happened and still happening is, learning about the abolute moral abyss coming to the surface; to be worthless meat to certain people who are allowed to control my life.
Happened and still happening is, learning about the abolute moral abyss coming to the surface; to be worthless meat to certain people who are allowed to control my life.