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"you will own nothing and be happy" These are the words our so called elite whisper in our ears, the very words I know we all hate but I find it ironic that yeah, trying to adopt a minimalistic life style can create less mess, less things, and cleaner more organized home. You eventually come to find you don't need a large lavish home to happy life. But I can't seem to get out of this mindset. I want a bigger home. I want to have that bad ass muscle car that was once an affordable dream of mine now seems almost unachievable. I e been priced out. Hobbies of mine I've fallen out of because it's too expensive. I've ultimately decided to try and create this minimal lifestyle in hope I can have more freedom. Or is this a way I have to now justify things because I can't get what I thought was once achievable. What are your all's thoughts? I'm trying to get out debt but I find it hard nowadays. I have a stay at home wife and two kids. Drive to paid off older cars, live in a garage less 1200sqft house single level on about half an acre. Barely contributing to a retirement.

"you will own nothing and be happy" These are the words our so called elite whisper in our ears, the very words I know we all hate but I find it ironic that yeah, trying to adopt a minimalistic life style can create less mess, less things, and cleaner more organized home. You eventually come to find you don't need a large lavish home to happy life. But I can't seem to get out of this mindset. I want a bigger home. I want to have that bad ass muscle car that was once an affordable dream of mine now seems almost unachievable. I e been priced out. Hobbies of mine I've fallen out of because it's too expensive. I've ultimately decided to try and create this minimal lifestyle in hope I can have more freedom. Or is this a way I have to now justify things because I can't get what I thought was once achievable. What are your all's thoughts? I'm trying to get out debt but I find it hard nowadays. I have a stay at home wife and two kids. Drive to paid off older cars, live in a garage less 1200sqft house single level on about half an acre. Barely contributing to a retirement.
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I want to have that bad ass muscle car that was once an affordable dream of mine now seems almost unachievable. I e been priced out.

I have had a lot of toys in my life. I can honestly say wanting is often times far better than having. I've wanted things in the past, worked hard to get them, was often disappointed once I had them. Between sales tax, registration fees, excise, insurance, wear and tear, maintenance, rust, depreciation, gas, etc ... every new toy bleeds your time and money. Some seem well worth it, others not so much.

I don't get too excited over buying new cars, hot rods, toys that go like hell anymore. I think of that list of negatives and my new-car-itis or new-toy-itis subsides. I <smdh> when I see a young guy buying a monster quad for $20K+.

Put your extra money into appreciating investments that will make money. Upgrades to the house, yard improvements, big vegetable garden. If you come across some extra cash, maybe invest in raw undeveloped land in a great location (do all the homework first). You can sustainably harvest the trees, split off a house lot or two (must have ROW or road frontage) to recoup some of your up front costs, and/or if there is enough land create a subdivision. I worked 24 years as a CS/EE in podunk Maine where engineers generally don't get paid as well as other areas and felt like you do by my 10th year. I continued working hard, got great reviews and the usual promotions but felt like I was just getting by. I had a real estate dream to acquire wealth, I studied RE, did all the homework, bought some undeveloped land, quit my job and put everything I had into it. It was a grand slam home run success, I've been retired ever since. If you don't have much RE background or knowledge, maybe becoming a part time real estate agent would teach you the tricks of the trade and reward you well for the time you devote to it. It would put you into the know of what your local market looks like and any properties in the area that meet your needs, and you will be aware of land coming up for sale or about to.

What I found after 24 years of CS/EE is that there were easier ways to make significantly more money if you put your engineering mind to it. Real Estate has made more millionaires than any other occupation. Most realtors made it through Algebra and that's about it ... yet they can make 6 figures and more selling real estate.

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You're not wrong. I think it's being consistent or trying to find other ways to generate more income so you can buy more assets faster. Time is what we will never get back and I try not to live in the past because I know it will hold me back. It's easy to say harder to do. Hell, trying to declutter I've found is extremely hard to do. You justify why you hold on to things you haven't even used in 2 years.

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My son bought a Tran Am with primer body and a brand new 400cc engine last summer for a grand. Put a wrap on and he's got a muscle car

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400cc? Also sound slike your son got extremely lucky. I have an 86 f250 with a 351w I've been trying to hold onto but I just don't have time and money to get it road worthy. Holes in floor pan, rusty suspension, etc. I rebuilt the c6 almost 5 years ago that only has 3 miles on it. Long story it worked great just haven't done much due to becoming a father and other needs first. It's rusting away in my driveway as I just can't get the time to fuck with it. She'll start up just ain't road worthy. It's one thing to have a project but a project you can't drive is an entirely different game. It sucks ass.