No. That’s what faggots call it. On sims 4 they changed the name of wife/husband to partner or spouse or w/e recently to be iNcLusIvE. That’s why they do it, to appease faggots, not because it’s correct. Gender neutral terms make it seem like you’re trying to hide something or trying to be woke. If the term boyfriend/girlfriend sounds childish to you then get engaged and married like an adult, don’t use faggot terminology.