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My new wife has just told me that she wants a big chest and neck tattoo for her birthday. Look , I don't mind a few tats (she has a few big ones that are non visible when clothed), but to me, a neck tat is getto as fuck and says " I'm bitch who can't do anything but be a crack whore". I make a good living in a very professional environment, where I am the boss. There is no fucking way I am taking a neck and chest tatted woman to a company function where a deep into the 6 figure salary based upon perception is on the line. Advice?

My new wife has just told me that she wants a big chest and neck tattoo for her birthday.

Look , I don't mind a few tats (she has a few big ones that are non visible when clothed), but to me, a neck tat is getto as fuck and says " I'm bitch who can't do anything but be a crack whore". I make a good living in a very professional environment, where I am the boss. There is no fucking way I am taking a neck and chest tatted woman to a company function where a deep into the 6 figure salary based upon perception is on the line.

Advice?

Suck it up, no one thinks neck tattos are ugly but you
Deal with it, even if it means you won't be having sex becuase you aren't turned on anymore
Divorce her now
Hire a spouse for company functions.
Fuck you

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[–] • 2 pts

I would say stop being a bitch and talk to her and give her your perspective.

Say

you don't mind her getting tats and you would love to proudly parade her around company functions but if she gets a tattoo there then having a partner like that is not an image you wish to project of yourself.

or something like that. If you're the breadwinner of the household and she potentially fucks that up then you'll be getting a divorce anyway but she'll be initialising it because she'll think you're a loser who can't earn like you used to... in my opinion derived from my limited perspective of this situation.

[–] • 0 pt

That's good, and yes I am the breadwinner.

[–] • 2 pts

Remember to state all your no-no tattoo regions upfront like the tramp-stamp above her ass crack. Make your boundaries clear so that you don't have to go back, revise, and tell her she's not allowed a tattoo in some other degenerate region.

[–] • 1 pt

To me anything visible in business clothes is verboten. I don't care what it is.

The other shit is 50/50 with me.