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She's 13 years younger but we always got along great. Unfortunately she has narcissistic tendencies and like so many she is an attention whore. I have no real attraction anymore and had enough of her always looking. I'm going to enjoy freedom for awhile. Is it even worth trying to meet and date other women these days? Should I just wait for random meetings as I always have or spend time looking for a women who would appreciate a man who puts in an effort? She would have to be un-vaccinated and aware of the jew. That makes it a very tall order. My guess, get used to loneliness.

She's 13 years younger but we always got along great. Unfortunately she has narcissistic tendencies and like so many she is an attention whore. I have no real attraction anymore and had enough of her always looking. I'm going to enjoy freedom for awhile. Is it even worth trying to meet and date other women these days? Should I just wait for random meetings as I always have or spend time looking for a women who would appreciate a man who puts in an effort? She would have to be un-vaccinated and aware of the jew. That makes it a very tall order. My guess, get used to loneliness.

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They’re out there, but if you’re not looking and broadcasting that you are available, chances are slim. Age difference isn’t important, we are a few years more than you were. Sexual market value peaks for men at 39 and women at 23, there’s lots of couples who are those ages who work well.

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My partner and I are the same 16-17 years apart. We met when she was 19 I was 36, we were probably very similarly high SMV, and still are.

Still together many years later with kids. She knows all my opinions on jews, degenerates and “progressive politics”. She was centrist, now she is conservative and similar, although not as quite far right as I am.

They are out there, you just need to keep looking in the right places until you find them. It’s rare they come looking.

I can suggest doing university courses as a mature age student to be around younger, sociable, fun, healthier, not unintelligent women.

Edit: also get in the best shape of your life. It makes things become easy mode. It may sound shallow but if you are a complete package, amused/humerous, good conversationalist/small talk, you have a mission/pursuit you are focussed on apart from women (financial stability/living off grid/entrepreneur/higher education with a goal in mind etc.) and you are the best looking you can be, it is much easier to attract a larger pool of women. You don’t have to be interested in all of them, but more fish swimming near your hook, equals higher chances of landing the right one. And funny thing: the more women are interested in you, the more other women will be too. They can’t stand being outcompeted for an high value man if they are single and are considering you.

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Age difference isn't important for two adults.

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Unfortunately she has narcissistic tendencies and like so many she is an attention whore.

So many women are like this. All they really have to do to keep men happy is to behave like normal human beings and be nice to us, but somehow most of them find this extremely difficult.

I'm going to enjoy freedom for awhile.

This is the best thing to do. Take some time to recover and then reassess your approach.

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Lol, men are pretty easy to keep happy. All a woman has to do is not become fat slob, have enthusiastic sex a couple times a week and feed us and keep the house nice.

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Rocket science for most women today.

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Isn't that the truth. Thanks.

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If you’re a Christian, then the answer is simple: focus on your walk. Be in church, not for community, but for doctrinal study. If the pastor isn’t teaching New Testament from the original Greek with honesty to at minimum acknowledge Israel isn’t our “greatest ally,” then keep looking. God will provide the correct woman who will be yours to shape and guide if you’re in the position to lead her biblically.

If you aren’t a Christian, then it would first be advisable to ask yourself why you aren’t, but moving past that, as long as you, yourself are prepared to have a wife, a home for her to occupy and manage its day to day operations, debt free, contingency plans to ensure her security, then start looking to women still under their father’s leadership, and talk to the fathers, not the girls, to start. Explain what you bring to the table as far as assets and financial security, as well as a honest discussion about you’re looking for. If he’s wise and ideologically aligned with you, your odds of success increase, both with him and with her in the long run.

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Hebrew is more important than Greek. God's revelation came to the world within a constant of Hebrew-speaking people for over 1000 years before Aramaic and the Septuagint existed.

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Greek New Testament is more important for Christians.

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The behavioral stuff translates pretty well. When it says not to steal, it means don't take stuff that isn't yours. There's just some conceptual things that aren't going to be understood properly without digging into some Hebrew and what Jews believed in order to understand the contextual meanings of those terms.

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Greek is more important. Jesus quoted the Septuagint, not the Hebrew.

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What word do we look into to understand what the people in Israel and Judah were thinking? Is it sheol or hades? When we look into hades we're going to get a bunch of Greek mythology. Hades is simply the best Greek word they could find to replace sheol as a place where dead people go. Then there's "gehenna" in Greek, which is a construction based on the Valley of Ben Hinnom in Hebrew. I would assume this word doesn't have any real meaning or background in Greek and is simply Greek-speakers conveying a Hebrew idea. It's used by Jesus 7 unique times in Mathew with repeats in Mark and Luke. Jesus was speaking to people in Israel/Judah where they'd understand what this was. James says "set on fire by gehenna" in a letter written to believers in Jerusalem. Outside of this, nobody uses the term, and it's likely Paul is avoiding it because gentiles don't have any concept of what it's referring to.

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Three languages are written on Christ's cross. Regardless, please read St. Paul's Letter to The Galatians, because through Christ, there is no point turning the gentiles in to jews.

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I'm not trying to get anyone to follow Jewish rules. I'm just saying there are conceptual things in the Bible that can only be understood properly by digging into Hebrew. Sheol and hades are two examples. Hades is simply a Greek replacement for sheol that should be understood as that. So instead of digging into Greek mythology concerning hades, we're supposed to try to figure out what Jews believed about sheol.

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Now is a very bad to be looking because society is being quickly subverted. The dating pool, especially for you is very scarce. My advice is to spend time crafting a profile and start looking. Given what I see as opportunities, it will be very hard to find what you're looking for. Consider, also, available women are chasing only the same 20% of men. If you happen to be in that same 20%, good for you, if not, it will be worse. Waiting is bad, you could end up being alone forever.

Also, focus on Slavic women here and abroad. They are much better suited as wives than what women have been turned into here.

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You got that right, women are downright scary these days. Slavic, I met one awhile back who was unbelievably sexy, to bad she was on a visa and had to go back home.

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You should first assess what you found attractive about someone 13 years younger beyond the physical. What virtues did you see? Or were you just chasing the superficial like an R-selected normie?

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as long as women are in their twenties, men of almost any age group would be better off getting one of those newer models. If the goal is to have kids and raise a family the younger the better as long as they're in their 20s (obviously, not a girl, women only). Going for young, beauty and purity will give their future children the best possible mom. Children can tell when their mom is old/ugly/low energy (not that all those traits are a cause and effect but they often go hand in hand.)

I gotta say, I always thought I was kinda pretty, but it really put things into perspective when me and my little one walked by an add with a gorgeous supermodel. I normally go into a routine where i tell him to ignore adds but he was obviously taken away by her beauty and he stopped. He pointed and said "CUTE!"

I said "Oh, she is really pretty, you have a good eye for ladies." I tried to keep going but he didnt want to go He said "Mommy cute?" "Um, I'm not sure if she's a mommy, but she is very cute." "Mommy...NO! MOMMY cute!" He kept pointing at me and the women, as if comparing. "You think I'm cute like she's cute?" he nodded glad I finally got what he was saying. "Mommy cute :)" then we moved on.

I'm certainly not a supermodel, I also never wear makeup, yet even at a young age men learn to appreciate female beauty. Young and beautiful go hand in hand, it's entirely natural for men of any age to be attracted to beauty.

TLDR:

Or were you just chasing the superficial like an R-selected normie?

In my opinion, men of every type are attracted to beauty. It's natural eugenics. If you want to keep honing the human race, always pick the best female. Normies do it, but its not a quality that is unique to normies.

Maybe I'm assuming too much based off of what you said but I wanted to say my piece about the subject.

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Men are attracted to beauty, much as humans are attracted to brightly colored sweet food because fruit is goo for us. Candy...not so much.

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I respectfully disagree with your perception on this matter.

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No I wasn't chasing anything, she chased me.

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Older single women have no value. They are dead-eyed riders of the cock-carousel; they cannot be saved by cuck white-knights.

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the good: there are great women out there who will compliment you very well.

the bad: they're in short supply and can be tough to identify

i went through similar thing years ago. my best advice is to keep busy with constructive activities, hobbies, side business(s), volunteer work, sports, working out, etc..

i don't like in a big city so this wouldn't really help me, but if you like working out/ staying in shape there are classes/groups that are a great place to meet women. look for classes outside of the gym that are for groups.

good luck to ya bro.

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I appreciate that advice, thanks.

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Women are hard. I just worked my ass off all weekend to fix shit around our house and I'm still taking flak today for fucking resting and drinking a few beers. Jesus Christ.

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Zero appreciation

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Exactly! I can't even wrap my mind around how they work, and I've been married almost 10 years of my life.

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sorry for your breakup. even if the relationship has strain, breakups are rough.

did you just separate? if so, you might want to take some "you time" to focus of yourself. i know after i broke up with the girl i intended to marry i made some bad decisions with one nighters and loose women.

the murdochs have a pretty long podcast type Q&A and one of the things they call out is looking for a redpilled woman right off the bat. the woman takes on the qualities of the man, hopefully he is the dominant one in the relationship. women love that shit. murdoch chan says just find one that can cook. other than that, you're expecting too much.

best of luck.

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I think you have to rule out anyone totally libtarded, but don't disqualify one that isn't full 1488.

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libtarbed wymon prombly have enough trouble reheating doggy bags from the olive garden, let alone following the steps to kraft mac n cheez

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Why do you want strangers to tell you what to do? If you want a girlfriend, go and find one, if you want to be alone, be alone.

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Unvaxxed is important but you can teach them about the jew. Women will be taken aback at first, until multiple examples are brought out.

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Palmela Handerson is always available. Take some time to think about what is exactly you are seeking after. No hurry bro

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