We've all seen those women who are unemployed, in massive debt, fat, ugly, tattooed, multiple kids all with different fathers - All asking why they can't get a good man with a 6-pack, 6' tall, makes 6 figures. Right? If the best you can get is a 3/10 who will just use you - Then I've got some bad news for ya. - You're a 2 out of 10. And a woman who is an 8 or 9 is not going to settle for you. Hit they gym. New clothes. New haircut. Appear like you'd be a good provider. Someone who will keep them safe. Someone who can provide a good life for a wife and family. Improve yourself. Maybe 10 or 20 or 40 years ago a guy like you could easily get a fit, healthy, White woman who cares about you. But times have changed. Now, being healthy and in shape with a good job isn't enough. And the good women are rarer than they were in the past. Either start settling for girls in your range. Or improve yourself.