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Right when you meet them?

After 5 minutes?

After they say or do something significant to you or your interests?

The day after / second time you meet them?

Never?

Right when you meet them? After 5 minutes? After they say or do something significant to you or your interests? The day after / second time you meet them? Never?

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[–] • 6 pts

I don't ask, I forget anyway.

[–] • 3 pts

The number of people I meet who have names worth remembering deceases every day.

[–] • 0 pt

There are so many people deceasing lately, it hardly seems possible to learn their names!

[–] • 4 pts

Immediately before I ask to speak with their manager.

[–] • 4 pts

In the Instant Search Age, your name, or anyone's name is privileged information. I don't ask and I don't share unless we plan to connect again. I've used this tactic when meeting women. I don't ask, and when she inevitably does, I tell her it's not important unless we're going to meet again. It has gotten me a couple relationships that otherwise may not have happened.

[–] • 2 pts

Never and I don't care because I never say anyone's name.

[–] • 2 pts

After I've forgotten it

[–] • 1 pt

When and if I ever I decide that I even care...

[–] • 0 pt

Depends how hot she is.

10 - 7, immediately.

5 - 6, only if if she can wear it.

1 - 4, her name would be a waste of memory space, unless she fits into the family category.

[–] • 0 pt

I really don't pay attention to names either. If I'm going to see them over and over again then I'll do my best to ask. But if it's just a good conversation I don't bring it up. I actually sometimes give a stage name because I'd rather them not know my real name at first.

[–] • 0 pt

I ask their name if I'll need to address them among other people. That's the purpose of a name, to differentiate between other people.