Maybe, but I'd feel weird going in so soon. It's more like an occasional visit when I'm buzzed on a walk. Believe she's a manager, usually too skinny for my pierce brosnan leanings (jk), but has the nerdy long pointy non-jew nose i like... And was obviously complaining about her situation amongst the other girls on my way out talking to another employee about tarantulas
I recall Tate having a sound strategy for approaching women. IIRC, make your move, compliment her, ask for her number/nsta, which she will give because women, then ask her for her name, and then WAIT. If she reciprocates and asks you for your name, then you are IN. If she does not ask, then move on because that means she is uninterested.
A few people online have followed the strategy and it seems to work exactly as how he explains it.
I don't do Instagram, and i don't really follow Tate, though he seems trashy yet effective. I'm looking for Hallmark movie shit.
Hallmark movies are MOVIES!! Absolutely do NOT try anything you have seen in a movie, ok? NO!
Youre already putting too much thought into this. Be casual, go into the store, say, "Do you want to grab a drink sometime?" Then shut the fuck up. Is she says absolutely anything other than "yes", it means no.
No hallmark, no movie moment, no big deal. Capiche?
but I'd feel weird going in so soon
Good you’re striking in the zone while the striking’s hot. Weird and not the right time IS THE PLACE TO BE.
Alright, so I go back in soon seeing if they have new tarantulas
A couple of important things to know -
A No does not mean a No. it means a No right now.
A woman or anyone is likely to be caught off guard. She may need an hour to come to her senses. Do not give up immediately for these two reasons. Keep going and ‘relationshiping her up.
Also a No is not to who you are, it’s to who you are being. Do not take it personally. She does not know you, it’s impossible to ‘reject’ you on who you are. And for that see the two previous No’s I mentioned.
Keep in mind she wants a man. You are a man. There is no reason for her to not think of you as anything than what she wants. Go in with this confidence.
And ‘lastly’ you do not get to choose why a woman will or will not like you. If she likes you you go with it. She may like you for reasons you do not comprehend. She may like you for the very reasons you think she shouldn’t. If she likes you you go with it.
Why would you feel weird?
Serious. Walk in and straight speak your mind.
Hi. Since last time I was in, I've been thinking I'd like to get to know you. Want to go (insert activity) with me?
Whats the absolute worst that can happen. She says no?
Should I bring chloroform?
Bleach + rubbing alcohol fyi lol
No but its a terrible strategy to ask women for anything. Make all your questions affirmations. As in: "Can I get your number?" becomes "I was thinking about you giving me your number so we could do X".
Procceed as normal henceforth
That. A wee bit of small talk to engage her and then direct the conversation to your point. You should get a signal during the small talk phase. Proceed accodingly.
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