We have a really good friend who was our neighbor for a few years in the same predicament as you. He has two children who are trash, and their children are trash. He has asked us what we think he should do with his inheritance. We have no answer. It's a terribly sad thing to face. I feel extremely blessed that two of my three children have turned out very well. One of them is not included in the will until he changes some things. I'm not holding my breath on that though. Amazing how different children can be from their parents.