She sounds very immature and you are heading for big trouble. She is controlled by her parents and will gladly transfer that control to you until something goes wrong. Then she will blame you for making her unhappy. Then she will run home to the childhood security of mommy and daddy. She needs to break the apron strings before you marry her. You can encourage her but you can't do it for her. Make it clear to her that she needs to learn to stand up to her parents as an adult before you marry her.
I noticed this too, the family whips her into a panic and then she gets very high anxiety, this has happened multiple times to the point where its very aggravating. It's not a deal breaker, but it has also caused her to ask very inappropriate questions about my past life to placate her family. Surprising no one it did nothing to placate the family, who used the answers to feed an insatiable frenzy
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