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I just dont get why we are expected to like or respect blood family. I mean if they werent family I would never know or care to know them. The only common factor is we are related somehow. I sure the fuck aint gonna love you.

Some were here the last few days, Im so glad they are gone. It really fucked with my and Dogs routine. Yes I am a creature of habit, at this stage I dont like it interrupted.

I just dont get why we are expected to like or respect blood family. I mean if they werent family I would never know or care to know them. The only common factor is we are related somehow. I sure the fuck aint gonna love you. Some were here the last few days, Im so glad they are gone. It really fucked with my and Dogs routine. Yes I am a creature of habit, at this stage I dont like it interrupted.

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[–] • 9 pts

This sounds extremely jewish and I don't think anyone could possibly disagree with me. The nuclear family and love are White values and White ideals. So...

[–] • 3 pts

I love how when ya aint got nothing else you cry jew.

[–] • 4 pts

I stated a fact. Destruction of the nuclear family is one of their (jews') stated goals. So it's not like this is just me making a claim.

[–] • 1 pt

Anyone here who recognizes my name would never mistake me for a jew asshole. Cept you.

[–] • 3 pts

Wait, but I've seen your nose..

[–] • 1 pt

Its a bit big but more native.

[–] • 6 pts

I just dont get why we are expected to like or respect blood family.

After a point, you have to earn the title of "family" and eventually it has nothing to do with blood.

[–] • 1 pt

Bullshit. Family is always about blood. Blood ties are stronger than any other ties.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Blood family that has rejected the truth and turned against everything that is good and pursues the destruction of my children and their future is less than nothing to me. If you commit to supporting blood regardless of their actions then you are no different from the nepotist kikes.

[–] • 0 pt

Right. Brother,sister,uncle,aunt,cousin. Fuck yall unless we click.

[–] • 5 pts (edited )

That's just life. My dad never said a word to me all my years. He was just there.

If people aren't in your life, not a part of your life, then they won't be relevant to you, and if they're not relevant to you then they're not gonna matter to you.

A shame but the truth.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

You have to have a history with them. The earlier the better. If none then no connection.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Same, I remember my dad 'once' played catch with me and I couldnt believe he could throw a ball. ( now he was a tough fucker, korean war vet and retired three times)

[–] • 1 pt

See for me it's about their ideology and behavior.

[–] • 0 pt

No to your meaning but yes to the second point inside. Blood is all that matters for "family". Others are not your family. It's not the same and never will be. It's not possible. You may love the guy besides you fighting in war but it won't even be remotely close if he were your actual brother. To make that claim is retarded.

[–] • 6 pts

My dad is the fucking man.

Life would absolutely have been shit for a great many people without him.

If you didnt get that in your life. Sorry for your luck.

[–] • 3 pts (edited )

Anyone has the potential to break your heart. It's easier to develop closer friendships that feel more like family than the family you were born with, but it's mostly an illusion. Try to live with one of your best, most trusted mates for a few months/years, see how much of a "bro" thing you got going, shouldn't take long to make or break it.

Family is a deeper bond than friendship. It's a duty to each other, or it was, we in the west don't have family values being promoted and enjoyed these days, quite the opposite in fact. Tradition is a dirty word because it brings up all those devastating historical offences like gays not being allowed to marry and whores having to keep their legs closed until they could marry.

Speaking as a single dad of a teenager I can admit with some shame that if I knew just how screwed my/future generations were I might not have had kids at all with anyone, ever.

[–] • 2 pts

I have seven kids and a wife that I give a shit about.

[–] • 1 pt

Thats a wonderful thing.

[–] • 1 pt

I have seven kids and a wife that I give a shit about.

Thats a wonderful thing.

It is. They are crazy sometimes, but hopefully they will see a happy world in their old age. \o

[–] • 1 pt

I lived with a woman with three kids who werent mine for 7 years. ( yeah shut the fuck up assholes) Best years of my life.

[–] • 2 pts

Familial duty is supposed to be reciprocal. If you show them love and respect and they don't show it back, they've chosen to not be family.

[–] • 0 pt

opposite

[–] • 1 pt

They're trying to show love and respect to you and you're rejecting them?

[–] • 0 pt

Well, kinda. Its not that simple.

[–] • 1 pt

Loyalty.

I guess you just don't have it.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt (edited )

My only family worthwhile is already dead (my dad), it wasn't till he passed that i found out my mom is a piece of shit with the way she carried on talking shit about him. I never realized how much bullshit my pop shielded me and my brother from regarding her and i wish she would have been the first to go, she is a manipulator and drama seeker, my relationship with my brother will be alot better once she's gone.

[–] • 1 pt

Autistic or you had a shitty family. Just what (((they))) want.

[–] • 0 pt

Nah, I dont have a lack of feelings ( I know thats just a general example ). I just dont think because someone is related they deserve your love.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

You have no obligation to someone who doesn't treat you with respect. Your family should love you and treat you well so that they're your hub for life. It's a shame for family to be shitty and ruin the natural affinity you have towards people related to you so closely. Naturally you should feel among your own kind around them, like how a race should feel, but even stronger.

[–] • 0 pt

Respect isnt love.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

It all just depends. If the family is toxic, if it is causing problems in your life then sometimes it is good to cut it off. But I think when we say family is important it’s more from a perspective of being the head of a family and being a levelheaded leader who fosters certain values. It’s less about a blind love because of shared genetics.

Ultimately the family as a healthy unit with a strong captain is such a positive force, and therefore a society made up of many strong families needs to be the goal if we want a healthy society

Edit: I think there is also the factor of the continuity of blood lineage, so that our heritage and spirit of our ancestors remains a part of our inheritance

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

My aunt died of cancer 2 years or so ago, she loved me a lot. A couple of years before that, her brother killed himself, my father

And she sent messages to me, postcards. I never took the time to reply, always had something else to do, not so important stuffs, but I finally did after many months, just a sms telling her that I didn't take the time to write back and that I will... And then she died

My father didn't see me for maybe 10, 12 years... I always told him, not this year because this or that, and years went by, in the meantime he suffered a stroke, he was on his own, and an evening he called me, to tell my that my mom was a whore, and that he planned on killing himself, he was certainly drunk a bit, he was always like that when drinking. And I had my problems too, and I told him to not call me to tell me such shits, and that if he really wanted to kill himself then "do it faggot or shut up"

A week later I learned he killed himself

I guess my actions, make me a shitty person, overall, especially toward my poor aunt, his sister

Now the funny thing, is that, there's a part of me, that kind of prides itself on not giving a fuck about it, it's over, it's done, it's behind, it's like that

I guess that makes me an even shittier person... But that's also what renders me somehow immune to suffering when it comes to the overall story

I'm not happy about it, it's just somehow, a bunch of non events now

...

Talking about shitty family members...

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