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My elderly dad's(92) poa(my nephew, his grandson) dumped him in a nursing home without cause simply out of convenience. dad wants to go home to die poa wont let him. poa ran through checking acct and is now throwing everything away and getting it ready to sell. paying himself and his helper monkey. poa has $600000 cds of my dads that imo ought to be used to care for him at home (he's been on same farm since birth, was his grandparents) he built his house himself. i was caretaker to my dad and visit him everyday, and everyday he tells me he's tired, wants to go home to die. i'm so fucking mad right now, i don't understand how he can treat his grandfather this way. poa never visits doesn't attend to his needs at all. my dad is being tortured and stressing in a time that that shouldn't be. i wish i could be a mature adult and deal with this but i just want really bad luck to befall him (poa) i'm not even sure i have a question, i just needed to rant.

My elderly dad's(92) poa(my nephew, his grandson) dumped him in a nursing home without cause simply out of convenience. dad wants to go home to die poa wont let him. poa ran through checking acct and is now throwing everything away and getting it ready to sell. paying himself and his helper monkey. poa has $600000 cds of my dads that imo ought to be used to care for him at home (he's been on same farm since birth, was his grandparents) he built his house himself. i was caretaker to my dad and visit him everyday, and everyday he tells me he's tired, wants to go home to die. i'm so fucking mad right now, i don't understand how he can treat his grandfather this way. poa never visits doesn't attend to his needs at all. my dad is being tortured and stressing in a time that that shouldn't be. i wish i could be a mature adult and deal with this but i just want really bad luck to befall him (poa) i'm not even sure i have a question, i just needed to rant.

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[–] 1 pt (edited )

As immediate next of kin you should have no problem getting POA from a generation removed. Document everything the grandson has done that is outside of the wished of the father. Document everything. If this goes to suit make sure to specify that costs come from grandson directly and not the estate.

[–] 0 pt

It is simpler than that the POA should have a clause about termination with written notice.