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Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

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[–] 10 pts

Tell an aunt passed away and you received $14.88M in inheritance, and you're gonna be busy dealing with the paperwork.

Watch her texting you, every 5 minutes.

Or somewhere in the ballpark of $80,085,537

[–] 1 pt

lol I saw what you did here.

[–] 2 pts

Walk away man. Lifes to short to be tryin to figure out her program.

[–] 0 pt

Fair point, for now we have no new dates setup so i can always kill the relationship by attrition. If she really wants to see me again she may want to formalize a date, but this behavior she has DEFINITELY explains why most guys dont really stick around

[–] 6 pts

If she was into you, she would keep communicating.

Not trying to break your balls, but she's probably getting nutted by other guys and will stick with the one that has the most shekels.

[–] 3 pts

Well she did recently mention she was going to meet up with a "friend" for an hour or so, so you may honestly be right. I wouldn't be surprised if she's seeing multiple guys at once

[–] 1 pt

Was a time 15 yrs back, that described my relationships. Ive grown alot since then. I dont know you, but youre better than a begger, im sure. Im not tryin to be a dick, but its better to be alone than be? Used. Weak. A bitch. Idk.

[–] 2 pts

Trying to understand chicks is like trying to understand why niggers are stupid

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[–] 2 pts

Just call. If she doesn't answer, don't leave a message; she'll see that you tried to contact her. If she answers, have a conversation instead of fucking around texting for 30 minutes to accomplish what a conversation can get done in 1 minute. Basically, stop texting her. If she can't be bothered to talk to you, then what's the point of dating her?

[–] 1 pt

bitches expect you to be a mind reader and get mad when youre not. PRO TIP: When they bring up some shit from 6 months ago that means you won the argument. Stop right there. Declare victory. Walk away.

[–] 1 pt

Seems like it. Don't take her shit.

[–] 0 pt

I feel like i made a mistake even texting her back today, should have just left it at no messaging instead

[–] 0 pt

Just message her and set up date, otherwise don't bother texting. It's not supposed to turn into a relationship online.

[–] 0 pt

That's what I would do, but I'm petty.

[–] 0 pt

Im not that petty, but coming from a relationship that had wayyy more communication than this one, it comes off as confusing to me. If you want to talk just talk, dont hide behind layers of bullshit

[–] 1 pt

You should move on from this girl. She obviously isn't good for your mental health.

[–] 2 pts

Gimme her number , I'll call her and ask her what the deal is .

[–] 1 pt

Not cool to steal his crush man!

[–] 1 pt

Just tryna help a brother out

[–] 0 pt

Perhaps you should solve this once and for all with a simple text:

"I'm not very good with texting. Do you want me to fuck you?"

She will probably say no and act offended, and here is your answer.

[–] 1 pt

How about: "Let's meet for drinks and more at place X. Would like to get to know you." Saves the offensive part.

[–] 0 pt

It depends on the situation, and in some cases the situation asks for it.

[–] 0 pt

Probably bad timing.

Talk to her about it. At the same time what closes a text conversation. I try not to look at my phone when I'm working. My wife texts me all the time and gets upset when I don't text back. Mostly, it is because I'm not glued to my phone.

[–] 0 pt

fuck, this right here. "why didn't you text me?"...... idk maybe I was doing that thing that puts a rood over your head

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